For a while, I almost stopped wearing high heels altogether. It wasn’t that I didn’t like them—it was that the “pain” and the feeling of “not being suitable” slowly pushed me away. It wasn’t until I began to seriously reselect, study, and try different styles of heels that I gradually rediscovered that familiar yet distant feeling. I realized that high heels were never the problem—the real issue was that I hadn’t found the pair that truly suited me.

During that phase, I also started exploring the designs of OnlyMaker more frequently. From my first pair to gradually adding more styles, I came to understand that high heels don’t have to be just “beautiful”—they can also be stable, reassuring, and even something you begin to rely on.

Relearning My Relationship with High Heels

There was a time when I strongly resisted wearing heels. Every time I wore them out, I would regret my decision within two hours. The pressure on my feet and the unstable balance made me feel like high heels were nothing more than a “visual illusion.”

That changed when I tried a pair of classic stilettos from OnlyMaker. That experience completely shifted my perspective.

For the first time, I felt like I could truly “stand.” Not just physically stable, but mentally at ease. I began to realize that a well-designed pair of heels can completely transform the wearing experience. Over time, I added more OnlyMaker styles to my collection, and each pair deepened my understanding of what good heels should feel like.

How I Choose Heels for Different Occasions

Now, I no longer buy shoes impulsively. I choose them based on specific situations. For daily commuting, I prefer moderate heel heights and designs that offer better foot support. For events, photoshoots, or occasions that require a more refined look, I opt for heels with stronger design elements.

OnlyMaker gives me a lot of flexibility in this regard. Their range covers everything from basic to statement styles, allowing me to switch depending on my needs. Sometimes, I even choose based on my mood—if I want something steady, I go for more structured designs; if I want something eye-catching, I pick styles with decorative details.

The Three Pairs I Keep Reaching For

Among all my heels, there are three pairs that I wear repeatedly and recommend often. They cover almost every scenario in my daily life.

Platform Buckle Strap Fold Over Ankle Boots

These boots are my most frequently worn pair during autumn and winter. When I first saw them, I hesitated because the platform and buckle design felt quite bold. But once I tried them on, my perception completely changed.

The platform design provides better balance, and the buckle around the ankle is not just decorative—it adds extra support. I often wear these OnlyMaker boots on days when I need to be out for long hours, such as shopping, shooting content, or short trips. They give me a “stable yet edgy” feeling—adding height without making me worry about losing balance.

Even better, they are incredibly versatile. Whether paired with coats, knit dresses, or jeans, they blend in effortlessly. OnlyMaker made this pair feel not just functional, but also like a true extension of personal style.

Suede Square Toe Bow Ballet Pumps

If the previous pair leans toward bold presence, this one goes in the opposite direction. It feels soft, calm, and effortlessly elegant.

Although the Suede Square Toe Bow Ballet Pumps are not traditional high heels, they are an essential part of my overall shoe wardrobe. There are times when I want to feel relaxed but still polished.

The square toe provides more space and comfort, the suede material adds a soft visual texture, and the bow detail introduces a subtle touch of refinement. OnlyMaker handled these details beautifully—it doesn’t feel overly sweet, yet it remains memorable.

I often wear them when I expect to walk a lot but still want to maintain a refined look—like visiting exhibitions, meeting friends, or running errands. They strike a natural balance between comfort and style.

Rhinestone Studded Cross Ankle Strap Pumps

This is the most “emotional” pair in my collection. The first time I wore them was for an occasion that required dressing up a bit. Standing in front of the mirror, looking at the crisscross ankle straps and shimmering rhinestones, I instantly knew these shoes would define the entire look.

The design of the Rhinestone Studded Cross Ankle Strap Pumps is layered and expressive. The cross straps shape the ankle beautifully while adding stability, and the rhinestones create a subtle yet undeniable sparkle under the light.

OnlyMaker made this pair feel more than just a shoe—it feels like an “atmosphere creator.” I don’t need complicated outfits; just wearing them is enough to complete the entire look.

My Honest Thoughts on Comfort and Height

People often ask me if high heels can truly be comfortable. My answer is: they can be more comfortable, but never completely without effort. The key lies in choosing the right pair and using them wisely.

Some of OnlyMaker’s design details make a noticeable difference—like cushioning in the forefoot, balanced weight distribution in the heel, and proper upper support. These may not seem obvious at first, but after wearing them for a full day, the difference becomes clear.

I’ve also developed my own habits: I don’t wear the same pair for too many consecutive days, I carry backup flats when needed, and I always break in new shoes at home first. These small adjustments, combined with thoughtful designs like those from OnlyMaker, make it much easier for me to live with high heels comfortably.

What Heels Really Bring Me

At this point, I no longer see high heels as something to “endure.” They’ve become a choice—a way for me to shift between different states of being.

Sometimes I wear flats to relax. But when I step into a pair of OnlyMaker heels, I immediately feel a shift—I become more focused, more upright, and more expressive.

That rhythm of walking, that sense of stability rising from the ground through my body—these are things I’ve only come to appreciate over time. High heels don’t just make me look taller; they remind me to take each step with more confidence.

Through all my experimenting and adjusting, OnlyMaker has remained one of the brands I trust most. Not because it’s perfect, but because it finds a balance between design and real-life wearability that works for me.

I will keep trying new styles and continue searching for the next perfect pair. But one thing is certain—high heels are back in my life. And this time, they’re here in a much more relaxed and authentic way.